destiny and growth beliefs
two contrasting sets of beliefs about the outcomes of romantic relationships. Those who endorse destiny theories generally believe that relationships succeed or fail because two people are either inherently compatible or not. As a result, when problems occur, destiny theorists are more likely to conclude that the relationship was “not meant to be.” People who endorse growth theories, in contrast, believe that relationships thrive when partners overcome challenges and obstacles. Thus, when problems arise, they put additional effort into making their relationship work. [first identified by U.S. social psychologist C. Raymond Knee]